I’ve been watching for the past year or so, people beating themselves up for what they don’t have or for what they wish they were. Today’s society has made us rush through life looking for quick fixes and fast remedies. Many of us have become depleted or “empty” in the process to have it all.
When I lived in Dallas, I never felt I was as pretty or successful as the other women. I always wanted more. I used to call it “The Wheel” because we would get crazy on our quest to have everything and be the absolute best. “The Wheel” never stops and, eventually, you have to jump off to find your bearings.
I finally had to come home and deal with reality smack in the face. There was no where I could run on this one. I learned to appreciate my flaws, cracks and curves! I was humbled by the amount of support I received when I allowed it in, and I learned you must be grateful for everything that you DO have and not just keep wanting what you don’t.
We forget how brave we are, and that we make our own paths, choices and journeys in life. You can always want the “perfect” husband, the “better-paying” job, the “biggest house on the hill”, but that isn’t going to keep you happy or give you peace at night.
You have to love yourself and know that if the leap you take isn’t the right one, well, then you at least tried. Part of growing is taking two steps forward, maybe one step back, and being able to realize that misstep. We all have flaws, but we are all beautiful in our own way. So, don’t ever let anyone tell you different.
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